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A quick note before we start. The Reframe is back, in a new home. If you first signed up on Beehiiv, it's the same newsletter and the same voice, now coming from my main address. Once a week, I'll write about what really sits behind career decisions. Here's the first one.

Your Year-End Review Isn't for Your Boss

Every year, when review season came around, I told my teams the same thing:

"Spend more time on this. It's not for me. This document is for you."

They usually looked at me as if I'd misunderstood the process. Reviews were something you got through, between budgets and year-end deadlines. A box to tick, a form to fill, a list of responsibilities with "completed" next to each one.

I hated how people approached them. They'd spend an hour filling the form in. And then they'd walk out of the conversation upset that their boss didn't understand what they'd actually done.

But how could anyone understand it, when it had never been written down?

I'd seen enough to know what that document really is.

It's the record of your impact

Organisations change. Bosses move on. Teams get restructured. One day, someone who has never worked with you will be asked to evaluate you, for a promotion, a new role, or a list of names nobody wants to be on. And when that happens, they won't remember your late nights or the fires you put out. They'll look for what's written down.

Your year-end review is one of the few places where your impact is recorded. And it's one of the very few you get to author yourself.

So don't hand that pen to someone else by being lazy with it.

Not a long list. The three to five things that mattered.

The most common mistake I saw was length. People listed everything they were responsible for, ticked it off as done, and assumed volume would speak for itself.

It doesn't. A long list of responsibilities tells the reader what you were near. It doesn't tell them what changed because you were there.

What I wanted to see were the three to five things that mattered this year. For each one:

• What it was like before.
• What you did.
• What changed because of it. With a number, wherever you can.

"Ran the monthly reporting, completed" says nothing. "Replaced three conflicting reports with one view the leadership team now uses to make decisions" tells me exactly why you matter.

Then it becomes a conversation

Once you've written it, the review stops being a verdict and becomes a discussion. I can tell you where I agree, and where I see gaps. And then we talk about the part that matters most: what you want next year, and what support you need to get there.

That's the conversation most people never get to, because they spent the meeting defending a list.

And next year, you'll write your objectives differently

Here's the quiet benefit. Once you've had to find the three to five things that mattered, you start setting objectives that way too. Fewer, sharper, written as outcomes rather than activities. Next December, the record almost writes itself.

This week

Don't leave it for the night before, and don't give it an hour. Start now, and come back to it over a few days. Write your three to five. Before, what you did, what changed. Send it ahead of the meeting, so the conversation starts from your words, not from someone's memory of a busy year.

If you're quietly thinking about a move, keep that page. Those same lines are the start of your story for whatever comes next.

The reframe

So the question I'd leave you with isn't "how do I get through my review?"

It's this:

If the only record of your year were the one you write this month, would it be enough?

I'd love The Reframe to be a conversation, not a broadcast. Hit reply and tell me: what's one thing that changed this year because you were there? I read every reply.

Melissa

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